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Be happy by celebrating success

Can you be happy by celebrating success?  At the very least it can help you to feel happier – it is just one way of helping you to see the good things in life, rather than focussing on the bad things.

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.

– Oprah Winfrey

One of the ways to feel happier is to cultivate a positive outlook, and this includes appreciating one’s achievements and looking forward with positivity.

In one of Paul McKenna’s excellent books (“I can make you thin”) he encourages us to answer 5 questions at the end/beginning of each week.  I reproduce them here – give them a try:

1.  The best things that happened this week were:

2.  My biggest challenges this week were:

3.  I did these things for the first time:

4.  What I learned was:

5.  My top 3 priorities for the week ahead are:

Simple questions, but they encourage you to reflect on what went well, what could have been better, and how you will go forward based on what you have learned.

Be happy by celebrating success – by feeling good about what has gone well, and also by looking at how you can make things even better in the week ahead.

Good luck!

And, tell me what you think – share what you have done differently, as a result of answering these questions, to be happy with yourself  – it’s great to hear your experiences, and I feature some of them in my newsletters.

Leave a comment here, or email me: Mary@Coach-me-Happy.co.uk

Gratitude Makes Us Happy

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.

– William Arthur Ward

Evidence shows that feeling gratitude and expressing thanks actually make us happier.  It is rewarding and helps us to feel good: happy with the person we are grateful to and happy with ourselves for having shown appreciation.

Thinking about the things we are grateful for also stops us from overlooking the good things that we have going on in our lives, that we sometimes fail to see.

So, today, focus on what is working well in your life.

AND, express thanks to those who are a part of that.

  1. Who do I love?
  2. When did I last tell them so?
  3. How can I better show my love and gratitude to them?
  4. Who loves me?
  5. How can I better show my appreciation to them?
  6. What am I most grateful for in my life?
  7. What is it about that which makes me feel grateful?
  8. What else am I grateful for?
  9. And what else?
  10. Who can I thank today, and how?

Today, I am simply grateful that I am here, to experience all the wonderful things that life (and the universe) has to offer.

Of course it can be a challenge at times – two people close to me have had cancer scares this month – but that has been a gentle reminder to me that there are always things to be grateful for, and sometimes it is simply my existence.

How can you develop an attitude of gratitude, to improve your happiness?

Good luck!

And, tell me what you think – share what you have done differently, as a result of reading this article, to put more happiness into your life – how did you feel afterwards?  – it’s great to hear your experiences, and I feature some of them in my newsletters.

Leave a comment here, or email me: Mary@Coach-me-Happy.co.uk